A Life Remembered
Obituary
Jerry Ben Ellison Jr., a beloved father, devoted husband, cherished son, and friend to many, passed away on Monday, May 26, 2025, at his residence in Cleveland, Texas. Born on May 12, 1980, in Galveston, Texas, Jerry brought joy and laughter to all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Throughout his life, Ben excelled as a project manager in the construction industry, a testament to his diligence and commitment to his work. However, it was not merely his professional achievements that defined him; rather, it was his warmhearted nature and loving spirit that will be remembered most fondly. Ben was a man who embodied kindness and generosity, treating every child he encountered as if they were his own. His playful, goofy personality endeared him to friends and family alike, and he dedicated himself to ensuring their happiness.
In the sanctity of his man cave, Ben created cherished memories with his children, often hosting mini concerts that became treasured family traditions. His love for music resonated through his interests, as he embraced playing the guitar and drums, dancing with abandon, and coaching various sports—his heart singing particularly for basketball, the sport he held dear. Alongside these passions, he found solace in the simplicity of fishing and relished the tastes of life, particularly enjoying his mother’s jalapeño poppers, an exquisite delight that punctuated his childhood.
Ben is lovingly remembered by his mother, Patricia Denise Allen, and her husband Jerry; his devoted wife, Nichole Ellison; and his beloved children, Austin Ellison, Jasmine Ellison, Kaitlyn Ellison, Jerry Ben Ellison III, and Kimber Ellison. His legacy extends to his granddaughter, Elizabeth Ellison, who will carry forth the spirit of her grandfather. Additionally, he is survived by his brother, Luke Allen, and his wife Wendy; his grandfather, Clyde Ellison; and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews who will all miss his compassionate presence tremendously. A host of friends and family, unified by their adoration for Ben, will continue to honor his memory in their own lives.
Ben is preceded in death by his father Jerry Ben Ellison; grandparents, Bobbie Collins, Betty Patterson, Victor Smith, and Ed Reiss.
Despite the profound sorrow of his passing, we find comfort in remembering that Ben’s spirit lives on in the hearts of those who loved him, and through the laughter echoing from the memories he made.
Services to celebrate Ben’s life will be held at Faith & Family Funeral Services in Batson, Texas. The visitation will commence on Sunday, June 1, 2025, from 12:00 PM to 2:00 PM, followed by a funeral service held from 2:00 PM to 3:00 PM officiated by Pastor Ryan Claussen. All are invited to join in commemorating a man who so fervently believed in the importance of family and friendship. Cremation Services are under the care of Faith and Family Funeral Services.
In this time of reflection, may we hold close the lessons of love, kindness, and the joyous spirit that Jerry Ben Ellison Jr. brought into our lives.
Messages of Love
From family and friends
Robyn Ellison
July 16, 2025
Robyn Ellison purchased Memory Book for Jerry Ellison Jr.
JT, Ashley, Oakley and Ozzi Ogden
June 14, 2025
We love you Grandma Ben ❤️
Jillian gray
June 13, 2025
Don’t have many memories with him but he was my bigger sisters father and he was a good coach, everyone loved him, he was the best father my sister could have and best coach those kids could have, 🩷
Jessica Harwell
June 12, 2025
I still remember the day Nichole told me she’d met someone. A whirlwind romance with two lonely souls finding their home. Thank you for loving my best friend, my heart’s sister, and never giving up on the life you were building together.
You were always there for our children, and loved them unconditionally. Uncle Ben to the rescue! (Saving the adults, not the kids). Countless birthday parties helping Tommy stay sane, and being one of the best friends he’s had during the past 12 years.
From cruising the neighborhood - whether watching us tumble off the tailgate or receiving texts to keep us in one place - to Sundays filled with family, food, and laughter, you’ll always be a part of my favorite memories.
{I’ll always be here to keep her a little wild🖤}
We miss you, Ben, and we love you. Always.
Jasmine Brianna Ellison
June 12, 2025
JBE FOREVER 🤞🏼🤞🏼 i miss you so much dad. i love you always 🤍
Doyelle
June 12, 2025
Will always remember your kindness for others and your love for family and music. You were always the one that was there, when others needed you. My fondest memories, are when you were little and running around the deer lease. Dirty from head to toe, but always had the most fun. From pretending to shoot a deer with a stick or helping skin a real one. You loved every moment.
I love you and will see you again, one sweet day!
Dilan Shane and Blacy
June 12, 2025
We love yall. Ben will be missed by so many. But you and his children will carry him with you forever.
Jim Proefrock
June 3, 2025
You will be deeply missed sir and prayers to family in this difficult time
Penny Gilmore
June 2, 2025
What a beautiful service was had for you on the 1st of June…You were loved by so many people that it was a standing room only service…Cars parked on 105 cause there was no room in the parking lot…Yes sir you were truly loved…You have an amazing family…I know they will carry on your legacy…Love you Lil Ben…Say a big howdy to your dad and grandma Bobbie for me…We will meet again and I can’t wait for the next dance….Heavenly Huggggs!!!
Heather roth
June 2, 2025
Sharing this memory for my daughter, Jasmine.
We went in to Cleveland emergency August 4, 2004 to be induced because you weren’t ready for this world. As I’m being hooked up to all the machines your dad walks in with French toast (if you know me you know it’s my favorite)! Here I am about to give birth, not allowed to eat and here he is scarfing down breakfast. Know your dad loved you in a way no one ever will. Love you baby girl
Amanda Fisher
June 2, 2025
We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere. I will always have a piece of you with me, and he calls me Mom. I will see you again one day. RIP Jerry Ben💕
Bo and Tammy Smith
June 1, 2025
We will forever cherish every moment spent with you Ben. We love you and your family. Rest in peace our friend.
Joseph J Roach
June 1, 2025
Hey buddy, I can't believe you're gone.
Seems like yesterday. When our kids, we're little
And we couldn't wait to see them grow up. And now our kids have kids. And even though I know you won't be here physically, I know you'll still get to see them and guide them as they grow. I wish I could just call you again. I know we're planning to get together soon.
But tomorrow's stretch and today's aren't long enough, but, I know as good as you are. You're sitting at the table, was the king of kings.
Our Lord. And that gives me peace, and I hope it gives your family peace.
You will always be remembered.
Love you brother
Jamie Quinn
June 1, 2025
Ben was a big part of our lives for so many years, and it’s hard to imagine things without him. To all our kids, he was Uncle Ben — or Uncle Jim, as Kasey used to call him. They absolutely loved him.
Ben was the guy who was always out playing with the kids, coaching them, or trying to teach them something new, while the rest of us were just hanging out. He had such a good heart and a way of making everyone feel included.
He was also the one we’d call when we needed help with something — especially anything to do with building or fixing things we had no clue about. And without fail, Ben would show up ready to help, no questions asked.
At every family event, he was always there — usually right by Nichole’s side. That’s just the kind of husband and person he was. Always there. Always steady.
Things just won’t be the same without him.
Rest easy, Ben. We’re going to miss you so much.
Kimber Ellison
June 1, 2025
Dad loved to grill. That was one of his many hobbies. i’m so so lucky i was able to be there and help him cook one time. i love you dad. i’ll miss you always and forever
Jennifer & Thomas Hazlett
June 1, 2025
Thank you for loving our kids, for helping teach them and for being the best Uncle Ben! Your lessons and love with stay with them forever. Our family was blessed to have known and loved you. This will forever be my favorite pic of Uncle Ben and Tucker.
Elizabeth Ellison
June 1, 2025
I will always love you poppa ❤️
Jerry Allen
June 1, 2025
Well you don’t have to worry about me squirting you anymore with the water hose.
I love ya & I’ll be see’n ya
Aunt Sherry
June 1, 2025
You were my first nephew, we may not have spent a lot of time together but I still loved you.
Love you and I will see you again.
Austin Ellison and Family
June 1, 2025
I love you dad, I will always remember everything you’ve tried to teach me. That be in life, work or coaching all of us kids and me helping you. I love and miss you.
Tracy LeMere
May 31, 2025
I remember Ben would come home with Philip sometimes from the bar and Philip was aggravating me and Ben took up for me!! Him and Philip had some kind of mustard and ketchup fight! Lmao there was mustard all over ceiling!! Me and Ben laughed about this for a long time after!!
Kristina Padgett
May 31, 2025
Rest peacefully friend.
Tommy Fischer
May 31, 2025
I remember me Big Ben and little Ben riding around the Holler in a Subaru and as time past we were riding Horses together with the Liberty County Sheriff's Mounted Posse along with many other family members Ed and Bobby. I loved you then and still love you today. My heart goes out to your mom and Jerry who I know loved you and are very proud of the grandchildren you gave them. They say time heals all but your memories will last forever in our hearts.Go rest high on the mountains Little Ben
Darren Miller
May 31, 2025
Will never forget the we went fishing on the trinity. Also had a just in general a lot of good times just hanging out cooking and socializing.
(Bo) James Allen
May 31, 2025
You will truly be missed.
You will always be remembered in all the memories we have shared through the years. RIP
Uncle Bo
bojamesallen@gmail.com
Paula Francis
May 30, 2025
Praying for this family. Denise, Jerry, Nichole and all those beautiful kids. May you all bind together and stay strong for each other. Your dad was always proud of you guys and will continue to watch over you.
Cheryl Aday
May 30, 2025
I have many memories with Ben. From camping to birthday celebrations where fun was had by all. I will miss him more than words can say.
Tim Manley
May 30, 2025
I have known Ben since he was a little boy in the thicket. He was always a good kid, I still remember his nickname from back then lol. Prayers to Ben and his family and I‘ll catch up with you again one day bud!
Misty Rue
May 30, 2025
I love yall and I pray God gives all strength, there is no words for the pain in your hearts.
Dana Mccreight
May 30, 2025
I remember babysitting him as a small boy. He was the sweetest little boy ever.
Crystal Aday and Calvin Durgan
May 30, 2025
Ben10 was a stand up kinda guy and a great friend! If you needed the shoes off his feet, he was down! I could never get over him playing the spoons, you don't see that often! Always there for his family and friends! We're all gonna miss him.
Donna Ford
May 30, 2025
My prayers and love to all Ben's family n friends. Ben was a great man.
Jason ,Mindy Sessions and family
May 30, 2025
You will be missed dearly. We will see ya on the other side. 😊
Michelle Anglin
May 30, 2025
Ben never met a stranger, left an impact on everyone he came in contact with. I got the pleasure of making some great memories with him, from sitting in the bed of the truck waiting on keys at reliant stadium to kidnapping him and going to the lake. Oh the places we went and the fun we had will be cherished for ever. You will forever be missed but will never be forgotten.
TJ Fischer
May 30, 2025
My prayers are with the family.
GINGER ALLEN-MORROW
May 30, 2025
I have fond memories of Ben playing the guitar with Gilbert and Chad a few years ago. Will be remembered always.
Rose Ray
May 30, 2025
You will be missed so much Ben .. had a lot of good times hanging out with you back in the day .. will love and think of you often .. rest in peace ❤️❤️
MIKE and JENNIFER BOWERS
May 30, 2025
RIP Ben ,lots of childhood memories.
Allegra Baccinelli
May 30, 2025
I was so saddened to hear of Ben’s passing. My heart goes out to everyone mourning him. Please know I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Gail Fischer
May 30, 2025
So sorry for your loss
Ben was a good guy and will be missed.My heart breaks for you all.
Hugs and prayers for you all. RIP Ben
Mamie Henson & Rick Godfrey
May 30, 2025
Mamie Henson & Rick Godfrey has purchased Lush Greenery Basket for Jerry Ellison Jr.
Luke Allen and family
May 30, 2025
Love you brother!! Damn sure going to miss ya man. See ya later.
Shauna Gilbert
May 30, 2025
My cousin, my friend, my trouble bubby. I love you. I'll see you again, when Jesus calls me home.
Jonathan Pursley & Abbie Murphy Pursley
May 30, 2025
We will miss you our friend. Thank you for the memories.
Ben Ellison III
May 30, 2025
I love you dad! You taught me everything I know about basketball and you were the best basketball dad & coach ever. I’m gonna make you prouder than ever.
Danny Bell
May 30, 2025
So many memories will be cherished by all. You will forever be missed but will forever be in our hearts
Mary Morrow
May 30, 2025
Mary Morrow has purchased Palm Plant for Jerry Ellison Jr.
Kaitlyn Ellison
May 30, 2025
I love you dad.. I will miss you every day forever. I promise to make you proud!!
Fly High dad I love you🩷🕊️
Mickey Howell
May 30, 2025
Mickey Howell has purchased Loving Embrace for Jerry Ellison Jr.
Teresa Rollins and Family
May 30, 2025
You are all in our thoughts and prayers!
Teresa Rollins and Family
May 30, 2025
Teresa Rollins and Family has purchased Eco-Friendly Memorial Trees for Jerry Ellison Jr.
Nichole Ellison
May 29, 2025
Fly High My Love! I love you. 🩶
Christina
May 29, 2025
Ben you were an awesome father to your kids and such a wonderful friend to so many. You will be missed by so many.
Paula and Sonny Williams
May 29, 2025
Paula and Sonny Williams has purchased Blooming Sympathy Garden for Jerry Ellison Jr.
Donaldson
May 29, 2025
Donaldson has purchased Peace Lily for Jerry Ellison Jr.
Jr Nelson
May 29, 2025
Such a awesome friend so many wonderful memories and good times I'll cherish forever
Joanne Keiper, St. Louis, MO
May 29, 2025
Joanne Keiper, St. Louis, MO has purchased Eternal Friendship for Jerry Ellison Jr.
Penny Gilmore
May 29, 2025
To the family of Jerry Ben Ellison Jr, I send my deepest condolences..Ben and I just reconnected after a very long time…We danced and I finally met Nichole, a memory I’ll always carry…I have always felt like family because I was always treated like I was..I’ll bet Ben Sr and Mama welcomed him into Heaven with open arms…Oh what a reunion I’ll bet that was…Prayers for everyone who knew and loved him..He’s not with us, but he will never be forgotten… I Love you Lil Ben and I’m glad you asked me to dance…Heavenly Huggggs!!..😇😇😇😇😇❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Melissa Dyer and Family
May 29, 2025
Melissa Dyer and Family has purchased Peace Lily for Jerry Ellison Jr.
Patricia Denise Allen
May 29, 2025
I love you son always 💔